Awlaad Ke Jazbaat

Maine Ek Aadmi Ko Dekha Jo Apni Beti Ko Sirf Is Liye Zado Kob Kar Raha Tha Ke Us Ne Ye Kyun Kaha :
"Abbu Ji, Mera Fulaan Jagah Nikah Kar Do!" 

Mujhe Bahut Taras Aaya, Maine Use Kaha :
Mere Bhai! Ise Bilkul Na Maaro, Jab Beta Beti Bol Kar Keh Dein To Un Ka Nikah Kar Dena Chahiye 
Waise Bhi Baap Ke Liye Bahut Zaroori Hai Ke Beti Ka Nikah Karne Se Pehle Us Ki Raaye Le, Agar Us Ka Dil Kisi Aur Taraf Maayil Ho To Us Ka Lihaaz Kare, Taaki Baad Mein Fitna Paida Na Ho 

Ishq Bahut Badi Beemari Hai, Is Se Badi Beemari Kya Ho Sakti Hai!! 

( ملخصاً: المبسوط للسرخسی، کتاب النکاح، ج4، ص192، 193، داراحیاءالتراث العربی بیروت)  

Baaz Bachhe Jab Jawani Ki Dahleez Par Qadam Rakhte Hain To Un Mein Ishqo Muhabbat Waali Hiss Bedaar Ho Jaati Hai
Ye Ek Fitrati Zauq Hai, Jis Ke Saath Muqabla Nahin Kiya Ja Sakta, Haan Walidain Ka Ye Farz Zaroor Hai Ke Is Ka Durust Raasta Mutayyan Karein 

Mash'hoor Sufi Aur Waliullah, Hazrate Yahya Bin Maaz Raazi Rahimahullah Se Kisi Ne Kaha :

Aap Ka Beta Fulani Aurat Par Aashiq Ho Gaya Hai

Aap Ne Farmaya : Saari Tareef Us Allah Ke Liye Hai Jis Ne Mere Bete Ko Insano Waali Tabiyat Ata Farmayi

(انظر: الداء والدواء، ص508 ، ط دارعالم الفوائد مکة المکرمة، س1429ھ) 

Ek Arabi Shayar Kehta Hai :

اذا انت لم تعشق ولم تدر ما الهوى
فقم واعتلف تبنا فانت حمار 

Jab Tum Kisi Par Aashiq Nahin Huye To Tum Ne Muhabbat Ko Samjha Hi Nahin, Is Liye Uth Jar Ghaas Charo, Tum Gadhe Ho (Aur Muhabbat Bhare Jazbaat Ko Samajhna Insano Ka Kaam Hai, Gadho Ka Nahin!) 

Is Silsile Mein Kuchh Guzarishaat Hain :

(1) Shuru Se Hi Apne Bachho Ki Nigrani Karein Aur Unhein Ghair Mahram Aurato/Mardo Mein Ghulne Milne Se Baaz Rakhein

(2) Unhein Rasool -e- Paak ﷺ Ki Muhabbat Sikhayein Taaki Wo Ishqe Rasool Mein Parwaan Chadhein, Aur Yaade Huzoor Mein Hi Aansu Bahayein

(3) Agar Aap Shuru Se Bachho Ki Nigahdasht (Dekh Bhaal) Nahin Kar Sake Aur Wo Ishqiya Mamlaat Mein Mubtala Ho Gaye Hain To Fitrat Ke Khilaf Jung Na Karein, Balki Un Ke Nikah Ka Bandobast Karein 

(4) Aap Ka Beta/Beti Jis Jagah Nikah Ke Liye Zidd Kare, Agar Wo Log Aap Ki Samajh Se Baahar Hain To Bachho Ko Pyaar Aur Daleel Se Samjhayein, Agar Un Ke Mamlaat Hadd Se Badhe Na Huye To Maan Jaayenge Lekin Agar Mamlaat Had Se Tajawuz Kar Gaye Huye To Aap Maan Jaiyega

(5) Jis Tarah Aap Bachpan Mein Apne Bachho Ki Har Khushi Ka Lihaaz Rakhte Aaye Hain, Isi Tarah Nikah Ke Maamle Mein Bhi Rakhein
Bahut Dafa Aise Hua Hoga Ke Aap Ke Bete/Beti Ne Aap Ke Khilafe Mizaaj Kaam Kiya, Lekin Aap Un Ki Khushi Ke Liye Khamosh Reh Gaye, Aur Unhein Duayein De Kar Apna Dil Saaf Kar Liya
Isi Tarah Nikah Ke Maamle Mein Bhi Un Ki Pasand Ka Lihaaz Karein, Aur Unhein Dua -e- Khair Se Nawaz Kar Chup Ho Jaayein, Allah Paak Behtar Karega

Allama Qaari Luqman Shahid Saahib

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