Joru Ka Ghulam Banne Me Faida Hai


Joru Yani Biwi Ka Ghulam Kise Kehte Hain?

Agar Biwi Ki Izzat Karna, Us Ke Saath Ghar Ka Kaam Karna, Us Se Acchi Tarah Pesh Aana, Us Ki Daant Ya Kadwi Baato Ko Khamoshi Se Sun Lene Ka Naam Ghulami Hai To Yaqeen Karein Ke Biwi Ka Ghulam Banne Me Hi Faida Hai

Meri Baato Se Ho Sakta Hai Ke Aap Ki Mardangi Ko Takleef Pahunche Lekin Haqiqat Yahi Hai


Biwi Ki Izzat Karenge To Woh Aap Ko Bhi Izzat Degi, Agar Saath Me Ghar Ka Kaam Karte Hain To Is Me Koi Burai Nahi Kyuki Nabiye Kareem Salallahu Ta'ala Alaihi Wasallam Bhi Ghar Ke Kaamo Me Madad Farmaya Karte The, 

Ab Raha Biwi Ki Chaar Baate Sunna To Is Me Bhi Haraj Kya Hai?

Hazrat Shaikh Abul Hasan Khirqani Rahimahullah Ki Biwi Un Ke Liye Sakht Alfaz Istemal Kiya Karti Thi Par Aap Sabr Karte The, Ek Shakhs Aap Ke Ghar Gaya Aur Aap Ki Biwi Se Pucha Ki Shaikh Kaha Hain To Biwi Ne Kaha Ki Tum Use Shaikh Kehte Ho, Woh To Jahil Aur Jhuta Hai! Shaikh Ka To Nahi Pata Lekin Mera Shauhar Jangal Ki Taraf Gaya Hai, Woh Shakhs Jab Jangal Ki Taraf Gaya To Dekha Ki Aap Rahimahullah Sher Par Lakdiya Laade Tashrif La Rahe Hai.

Us Shakhs Ne Biwi Ke Sakht Rawaiyye Ke Baare Me Pucha To Aap Ne Farmaya Ki Agar Main Biwi Ka Bojh Bardasht Na Karta To Ye Sher Mera Bojh Kaise Uhata (Yani Main Allah Ki Raza Ke Liye Biwi Ki Zaban Darazi Par Sabr Karta Hu To Allah Ta'alah Ne Is Sher Ko Mera Ita'at Guzar Bana Diya Hai.


(تذکرۃ الاولیاء، جز2، ص174)


Ek Shakhs Hazrate Umar RadiAllaho Ta'ala Anho Ke Paas Apni Biwi Ki Shikayat Karne Ke Liye Aaya Lekin Jab Darwaze Par Pahucha To Hazrate Umar Faruque Ki Biwi Hazrate Umme Kulsum Ki Buland Aawaz Sunai Di, Woh Hazrate Umar Faruque Par (Ghusse Ki Halat Me) Baras Rahi Thi. Us Shakhs Ne Socha Ki Main Kya Shikayat Karu Yahan To Hazrate Umar Faruque Bhi Isi Mas'ale Se Do Chaar Hai Aur Woh Wapas Ho Liya.

Hazrat Umar Faruque Ne Us Shakhs Ko Baad Me Bulaya Aur Puchha To Us Ne Bataya Ki Biwi Ki Shikayat Le Kar Aaya Tha Magar Aap Ki Muhtarma...

Hazrate Umar Faruque Ne Farmaya Ke Mujh Par Meri Biwi Ke Kuchh Huqooq Hain Jin Ki Wajah Se Main Dar Guzar Karta Hu. Woh Mujhe Jahannam Ki Aag Se Bachane Ka Zariya Hai, Us Ki Wajah Se Mera Dil Haram Ki Khwahishaat Se Bacha Rehta Hai, 

Jab Main Ghar Se Bahar Hota Hu To Woh Mere Maal Ki Hifazat Karti Hai, 

Mere Kapde Dhoti Hai, Mere Baccho Ki Parwarish Karti Hai, Mere Liye Khana Banati Hai.

Ye Sun Kar Us Shakhs Ko Ehsas Hua Ki Ye Faide To Mujhe Bhi Apni Biwi Se Hasil Hote Hai Lekin Afsoos Ki Maine In Baato Ko Madde Nazar Rakhte Hue Us Ki Kohtaaiyo Aur Kamiyo Ko Nazar Andaz Nahi Kiya. Phir Us Shakhs Ne Bhi Us Din Se Dar Guzar Se Kaam Lene Ki Niyyat Kar Li.


(تنبیہ الغافلين، ص280 بہ حوالہ اسلامی شادی)


Biwi Agar Do Chaar Baate Ghusse Me Kar Deti Hai To Thoda Bardasht Kar Lein, Aap Ka Kya Jayega? Phir Jab Use Ehsaas Hoga To Ho Sakta Hai Aap Se Muafi Maang Le. Aap Dar Guzar Se Kaam Le Aur Agar Ye Ghulami Kehlati Hai To Yahi Sahih, Biwi Ka Ghulam Ban Ke Rehne Me Faida Hai.

Us Ki Ghalati, Us Ki Kotahi Ko Dekh Kar Fauran Gussa Ho Jana Aur Apni Mardangi Dikhane Ke Chakkar Me Apni Jahalat Dikhana Sahih Nahi Hai.

Ye Dekhe Ki Us Ne Aap Ke Liye Kitni Qurbaniya Di Hai. Woh Aap Se Kitna Pyar Karti Hai. Kya Aisa Mumkin Hai Ki Be Aib Biwi Mil Jaye? Agar Nahi To Phir Dar Guzar Se Kaam Lene Me Hi Faida Hai Yani Joru Ka Ghulam Banne Me Hi Faida Hai.


Abde Mustafa

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